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Starting
Point Moving on again, hoping life will flow in the joy stream
By ROBIN TAYLOR
We just put a For Sale sign in front
of our house. My husband and I came to Nevada five years ago as newlyweds after
I found work as a middle school English teacher. Now we are leaving,
temporarily relocating to Salt Lake City, so that I can go back to school to
become a certified massage therapist.
We both hope that massage therapy will be a vocation that carries
me further down the joy stream, that path of following my heart that I lost
when I became a middle school teacher. Im not sure what possessed me to
become a teacher. Maybe it was a job that seemed respectable after my years of
wandering, a career appropriate for a newly married woman. I couldnt be a
cocktail waitress forever, could I?
I think thats where I made my mistake. Its never wise
to get too serious about this strange journey called life. Far better to be a
happy waitress than an unhappy teacher. It took me three years of teaching to
realize that. It was a relief to don a waitress uniform again.
Of course, if you asked me at the time, I would have minimized the
waitress part of my life. I really wasnt a waitress, Id say, if you
asked me what I was doing. I was a writer. I didnt leave teaching to
waitress, after all. This was a temporary gig, one that allowed me to make
money while I worked on my word craft.
I guess I shouldnt be surprised that I havent met my
writing goals. I had planned to have a rough draft of my novel done by now.
Articles in eight or nine national publications. Multiple rejection notices, at
the very least. I had scheduled four hours a day at the computer. I would prove
to myself, my family, my former students and colleagues that I was serious
about my writing.
In retrospect, I see how silly that was. Its foolish to
force the heart into a schedule, to channel the joy stream into a straight,
safe river, when what is needed is to let it pour over us, raging out of
control. Even writing, which I love, grows stagnant when I call on it to redeem
and justify me. It is not that important. It is not that powerful.
So if you ask me now what I do, Im not sure what to say.
Im not a Writer, capital W, though I do like to write. An hour a day is
my benchmark, time enough for words to become play, prayer, song. Im no
longer struggling to make it the center of life but accept that its just
part of it. I would no longer tell you about my novel. Its really just a
story. Novel sounds important, wise and serious. It makes me nervous and
stressed. Story is fun, like the tales I wrote in third grade, where
there was no pressure, but only love, as the characters came to life.
The main character in my story is a massage therapist, and I
realized, as I researched her craft, that it was something I wanted to learn
myself. That it seems like good work, healing work, certainly better than
waiting tables. Id tell you that its the next step down that rough
road, the one that moves through strange mountains under purple skies, the one
Jesus walks. I thought for a time that Jesus was calling me to be a Writer,
that this was the way Id justify my presence on this planet. Now, I sense
that hes been sitting on the side of the road these past years, waiting
for me to get up and follow him again, shaking his head as I run around in
circles, trying to get to a place I was never meant to go.
A long time ago, Jesus told Martha that only one thing was
necessary. She was worried and stressed about the meal she was preparing. I
worry, too, about my writing portfolio, time management, reputation. Jesus
tells us to forget all that. It doesnt matter, he says. Only one thing
does. To be with him. What a relief. Together, Martha and I dry our hands and
sit with him. In the end, thats where our joy is. Not in success. But in
running the other way from it. Right into the arms of Jesus, where the joy
stream starts.
Robin Taylor writes, for the moment, from Salt Lake
City.
National Catholic Reporter, October 22,
1999
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