Master of wolf metaphor comes in lamb's
clothing
By TOM ROBERTS
NCR Staff Denver
Beginning with a horrific depiction of contemporary culture as a
raging, fiery, filthy and deadly river, best-selling author and psychoanalyst
Clarissa Pinkola Estés wove an ultimately soothing story of faith and
mystery before some 400 listeners attending the opening night of the Catholic
Press Association's national convention here May 21.
"I was thinking how the culture appears to truly be a death cult
at this time in our lives in almost every direction we look," she said in her
talk. "And what promised to be the storyteller of our times, the television
set, has turned, in many of its hours, into a hole in the wall in our houses
that pours sewage into our homes."
While the talk was rich with provocative images, the irony that
accompanied Estés' appearance here was, for the most part, ignored.
Estés is author of Women Who Run With the Wolves, a
highly successful nonfiction book dealing with feminine psychology. She has a
strong audience among feminists, lesbians, New Age and goddess-religion
followers, as well as devotees of Matthew Fox, a controversial former Catholic
priest.
Estés says the basis of her work as a psychoanalyst is
narrative psychology. In more traditional terms, she sees herself as a
cantadora, a keeper of the old stories. Her bleak assessment of modern
life carried on in the image of the river, which she said she first used in an
essay appearing in the book The Conversation Begins.
Today, she said, parents find themselves floating with their
children down a river "overflowing with filth and garbage set afire, and there
are snipers of many kinds on both shores. We and our children are crouched in
dugout canoes, ducking and weaving our way downriver. A person who says this is
not so or that it is only a recent phenomenon, is not yet awake," she said.
In Estés' view, however, there is always a kind of
contrapuntal symmetry to the bleakness, a consolation or purpose running
concurrently with life's most jarring episodes. So even as the waters of the
death cult rage on, another river runs deeper, hidden, the river under the
river. "We are traversing at the same time another river, pure, clear and clean
... it is sweet, sweet as it can be." It is that river under the river, said
Estés, from which our story of faith is derived.
In a decision that many observers regard as a puzzling irony,
Estés was sought out to be the speaker by Francis X. Maier,
communications director for the Denver archdiocese and local coordinator of the
conference. Under the leadership of Archbishop J. Francis Stafford, who was
promoted to the Vatican last November, the Denver archdiocese acquired a
reputation for screening speakers in a more demanding way than most other
dioceses.
After 10 years in Denver, Stafford was appointed to head the
Pontifical Council for the Laity at the Vatican. His successor in Denver,
Archbishop Charles J. Chaput, was installed April 7.
Estés was chosen to replace Sr. Helen Prejean, author of
Dead Man Walking, a book that became an Academy Award winning movie.
Prejean, previously invited as keynote speaker by the association's board, was
rejected by Maier and other officials, presumably because of recent doubts
about her stand on abortion and women priests.
Estés, saying she and Prejean are friends, mentioned
Prejean in a phrase of thanks at the opening of her talk.
Recently, some church leaders around the country have expressed
reservations about Prejean, based on an article a year ago in Our Sunday
Visitor, a national Catholic weekly, that left it unclear whether she
opposed legal abortion. Some church officials are also concerned that she may
favor women priests.
As reported previously in NCR (May 2, 1997), Estés
is associated with a variety of liberal causes. Her tape "How to Love a Woman"
encourages lovemaking between lesbians. She told Playboy in a 1994 interview
that she was honored to have received "honorary lesbian" status from lesbians
who appreciate her work. She has taught at a new university established by
Matthew Fox, a former Catholic priest who ran into trouble with the Vatican
over his writings and ultimately left the church. And she has praised the work
for women's rights done by the National Organization for Women, one of the
nation's foremost advocates of legalized abortion.
Both Estés and Maier avoided controversy at the convention
here. In introducing her, Maier merely referred in passing to the attention the
choice of speaker had attracted. Just before the convention opened, Maier told
the Denver Post, "I don't know about this lesbian stuff," but said
Estés was well able to reflect what Pope John Paul II has called "the
new evangelization." Maier told the Post that Estés appeals to "the
heart, the soul, the need to regain our humanity."
As an example of the Denver archdiocese's previous concerns about
speakers, the archdiocesan paper, which Maier oversees, presented a harshly
negative assessment last year of such well-known Catholic theologians as Fr.
Richard Rohr and Lisa Sowle Cahill. They were among speakers for a program held
in the archdiocese under the auspices of an alternative Catholic group.
Injecting a bit more irony into the proceedings, Estés
spoke at a press convention before a roomful of journalists who were asked by
Maier to refrain from taking photos or using tape recorders, to protect
Estés' privacy. Her talk, however, was one of the tapes offered for sale
by the conference.
After the talk, Estés explained in a brief conversation
that the provisions prohibiting photos and taping were written into her
contract with the press association. She said she does not like having her
photo taken unless she has some relationship with the photographer because
photography is an art form. She also said that when random photos are taken she
feels the photographers "are taking away bits of me."
Though avoiding any directly controversial topics, she told one
story that poked fun at organized religion and read a riveting poem that
juxtaposed a family's rote recitation of the Hail Mary with an Hispanic
grandmother's empathetic and earthy conversation with Mary, "my sister ... my
child." And in an appeal for conciliation and reflection, she painted a picture
of a place, not an escape from the world, but a place where one comes in
contact with God and returns to the world strengthened.
"Beyond the places of dissension, beyond this world of
argumentation, beyond this locus of clashing and crashing things, egos,
temperaments and opinions, beyond all this and not too far down the road ...
there is a quiet field in which grow tiny white flowers that when walked upon
give off the fragrance of the word of God," she said. "Far away from here, far
away from all the dissension and the world of argumentation, locus of clashing
and crashing things, not too far down the road there is a field of calm and
peace. I'll meet you there."
National Catholic Reporter, May 30,
1997
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