Love's labor lost By ROBERT J. McCLORY
It was a match made in heaven -- or so it appeared. A married
couple deeply involved in lay ministry most of their lives, looking to work as
a team in a parish, preferably rural, preferably in the Midwest. A Midwest
diocese severely hit by the priest shortage. A small but thriving rural parish
in that diocese that had just lost its resident pastor and was looking for
competent, experienced lay help to take over day-to-day administrative duties.
A hard-working pastor living at the neighboring parish who would oversee this
new venture.
The omens were good. After all, laity have been serving as
administrators in this country since the late 1960s, and their numbers have
reportedly doubled in the past eight years. "No turning back" has become the
unofficial motto of all forms of lay ministry as the church faces the new
millennium. In 1996 the U.S. bishops launched a three-year study of lay
ministry with specific recommendations slated for November 1999. The goal is to
establish lay ministry as a genuine vocation fully recognized and adequately
buttressed with provisions in church law and practice.
But the experience of Jim and Mary Jean Smith in the beautiful
country church in Lima, Wis., points to serious flaws in the current
implementation of lay ministry and suggests that much remains to be done in
both law and practice. Their story is a cautionary tale.
In April 1996, the Smiths, both 59 that year, saw a classified ad
in the National Catholic Reporter and were immediately intrigued: "Two
west-central Wisconsin parishes soon to share pastor are seeking full-time
minister/pastoral associate to be part of joint parish staff." Among the duties
were direction of the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA), liturgical
ministries, adult and high school religious education and involvement in
pastoral and finance councils. The address was Holy Rosary Parish, Durand,
Wis., in the LaCrosse diocese.
"We had been dreaming about something like this all our lives,"
said Mary Jean. "We were waiting for the opportunity." The Smiths had spent
most of their 38 years of married life in Connecticut.
Jim, white-haired with a neatly groomed beard, was a calm,
organized man with a straightforward manner. He was department manager of an
electrical manufacturing company in South Windsor, Conn. Mary Jean, outgoing
and warm, was a registered nurse with experience in geriatric health care and
school nursing.
In their early years of marriage, they had gotten involved in
retreat work and for 15 years were leaders of a team working with college-age
singles and engaged and married couples at a Passionist retreat center in
Connecticut. In addition, both had earned master's degrees in pastoral ministry
from St. Joseph's College in West Hartford. Jim had also gotten a certificate
in spiritual direction and Mary Jean a certificate in clinical pastoral
education. While raising five daughters, they were constantly at work in every
imaginable form of ministry in their parish, and both served on several
Hartford diocesan boards concerned with sex education and youth ministry. With
their children raised and on their own, they decided now was the time for
full-time church work.
In June 1996, the Smiths traveled to Durand for an interview with
Fr. Ed Shuttleworth. He had been pastor of the country parish of Holy Rosary in
the township of Lima, but had just been transferred to St. Mary's Assumption
Parish in the city of Durand (population 2,000), some six miles away.
Though there is no town of Lima (not even a post office), Holy
Rosary, established in 1866, is far from a typical, small rural mission. The
well preserved brick and stone church, built in the 1930s and sitting atop a
hill, can accommodate 400 people. The parish, with a school, a convent and
modern rectory, has some 300 families who take great pride in the complex and
its activities. The new school building, erected in 1981, was paid for by 1984.
Mutual admiration
The Lima township, which was originally settled by Austrian dairy
farmers, is still heavily Catholic and heavily Austrian. Innumerable Holy
Rosary families are named Bauer (German for farmer), though many of the Bauer
clans are unrelated. The parish has gained wide notice for its Lima Polka
Choir, which travels around the region performing at Masses.
"We liked everything about the place," said Jim Smith, "the
people, the church, the area. There was even the empty rectory at Lima where we
could live." They were also impressed with Shuttleworth, a man in his mid-30s
who was considered a good liturgist, a talented musician and an excellent
preacher. And the priest was apparently impressed with the Smiths' experience,
dedication and the opportunity, as Jim expressed it, "to get two for the price
of one."
Jim Smith took an early retirement; the couple pulled up stakes
and prepared to move halfway across the country. The job description provided
by Shuttleworth called them "pastoral associates." As such they would assist
the pastor at both parishes, though their major concentration would be at Holy
Rosary in Lima where they would supervise the parish staff, schedule activities
and handle overall, day-to-day operations of the parish. They would also
preside at weekday celebrations of the word on days when Mass was not
celebrated. Their joint salary, $26,000, hardly compared with their Connecticut
income, and Mary Jean confessed she would miss the children and six
grandchildren who were concentrated in the East, but such was the cost of
fulfilling a dream.
Back at their Connecticut parish, St. Elizabeth Seton in Rocky
Hills, parishioners held a sending-forth ceremony for the couple, and a
reporter for The Catholic Transcript, the Hartford diocesan newspaper,
interviewed Shuttleworth by phone. He said the Smiths would be formally
installed as pastoral associates in a ceremony at which Bishop Raymond Burke of
LaCrosse would preside, though the date of the event had not been determined.
According to The Catholic Transcript, the priest said the
Smiths were chosen from a field of about 30 because of their "long list of
credentials." He foresaw no problems of adjustment. He was quoted as saying,
"In fact, as we were making the decision, we consulted with the parishioners,
and you could see their faces light up when we told them about the Smiths. They
were very excited, and I think they especially liked the idea of having a
married couple."
In July 1996 the Smiths arrived in Lima and signed what was
presented as a one-year contract; it was titled "formal agreement on ministry"
and specified their duties, especially the daily operation of Holy Rosary. "As
far as we were concerned, it was a three-year commitment," said Jim. "In
retrospect, we were terribly naive."
The Smiths hurled themselves into their new job with gusto and
considerable success, according to Holy Rosary parishioners. "At first I
wondered what they were doing here," said Byron Bauer, a 36-year-old husband,
father of three and member of numerous committees. "They were always around and
always busy. But I came to see they were good at meetings. I learned a lot
about my faith, and they knew a lot about raising kids. You know, I never got
close to the priests here in the past, so they [the Smiths] got to be the
church people I could really relate to."
Jackie Danzinger, 37, said she had mixed feelings about the Smiths
at first but found them "so approachable that they became my connection with
the parish." Danzinger, a member of the Holy Rosary parish council and the
education committee, is becoming a eucharistic minister, and her 16-year-old
daughter is a lector.
Nancy Wayne, a parishioner at St. Mary's Assumption in Durand who
often goes to Mass at the Lima church, spoke about the welcoming effect of the
Smiths on the church. "For the first time ever we were getting greeted with a
hug," she said. "These people had a loosening effect on a lot of us."
Lorena Weiss, 63, spoke of a serious difficulty she had
experienced. "All I can say is I needed support, and the Smiths were there for
me," she said, restraining tears.
The Rev. Elden Simonson, pastor of a local Lutheran church,
praised the Smiths' initiative in establishing an ecumenical, county-wide food
pantry and training the volunteers. Relations between Catholics and Lutherans
are now "the best in 15 years," he said.
"The Smiths were there for all of us," said Lima parishioner Tom
Bauer, 45, (no relation to Byron). "They never had opposition here from the
time they came as far I could see. There were no screw-ups."
There were of course problems -- minor ones at first, in the
Smiths' opinion. Shuttleworth became uncharacteristically upset when they began
dismissing the catechumenate candidates after the Creed in the Mass and
insisted the practice stop. It did. He criticized the wording of the Mass
petitions by Mary Jean and got upset when the Smiths sought to turn the unused
first floor of the Lima convent into a meeting room. More disturbing to them
was the fact that the promised collaboration did not occur, and their formal
acceptance as pastoral associates was continually delayed.
`Not working'
Nor did they believe they were receiving constructive feedback on
their performance from the pastor. Still, they found their pastoral work
stimulating and rewarding beyond expectations, and they acknowledged that
Shuttleworth was a dedicated, hard-working pastor.
In June 1997, nearing the first anniversary of their arrival,
Shuttleworth presented the couple with a one-year renewal of their "formal
agreement" -- with one change. They would be required henceforth to "actively
consult the pastor in all decision-making processes." He also told him, said
Jim, that he sometimes felt "threatened" by their presence and feared they were
"trying to take the Lima church away" from him.
Shaken and seeking to clear the air for the term ahead, Jim and
Mary Jean wrote -- and read to Shuttleworth -- a letter in reply. "We may have
taken some actions that you may not have agreed with," they wrote, "but we are
not guilty of any wrongdoing. Everything we have done ... has been for the
temporal and spiritual good of our parish communities. ... A year ago ... we
were given a job description for `pastoral associate.' To our knowledge, there
has been no initiative made to bring about this appointment. ... There has been
little collaboration here. ... Collaboration allows for an open and honest
forum in which thoughts, ideas and feelings can be explored and responded to
with gentleness and dignity. ... We have been engaged in ministry nearly as
long as you have been alive! ... Our combined gifts and experience deserve at
least as much respect as your priesthood. ... "
Shuttleworth, they said, seemed moved almost to tears by their
letter and agreed to remove the new wording from the agreement, which the
Smiths then signed. The priest said a reconsideration of their title and status
would occur in January. Relieved, the Smiths resumed their duties and reported
no confrontations over the next six months.
On Jan. 27, 1998, Shuttleworth led a meeting of the Lima parish
council, making no mention of the Smiths. The next day, as the Smiths were
preparing for a vacation in Connecticut, he summoned them and said, "It's not
working." He asked for an immediate letter of resignation.
"It was like a lightning bolt," said Mary Jean. "We were
devastated. I kept asking why. I said, `Give us some specifics!' "
Shuttleworth, she said, raised several issues that had not been discussed
before, including the complaint of a parishioner that a prayer service they led
seemed "disorganized."
"What if we don't resign?" asked Jim, noting they had a signed
agreement through July 1998. They were told, said the Smiths, that in that case
they would "be through" at once, would be denied six weeks' severance pay and
would not be given a letter of recommendation. He also insisted they vacate the
Lima rectory by March 16, the effective day of resignation.
Jim checked with a lawyer concerning the "formal agreement on
ministry" they had signed in 1996 and re-signed in 1997, only to discover it
had no legal validity since it mentioned neither a starting nor ending date for
employment. Reluctantly, they submitted a letter of resignation but asked if
they could remain in the empty rectory beyond March 16, until they found
suitable housing.
In a letter Shuttleworth told them, "I expect you to be moved out
... at the latest [by] March 16." The Smiths then packed up and rented an old
farm house a few miles from the Lima church to sort through their thoughts and
determine where to go from there. "We came in very, very naive, and we're
smarter now," said Mary Jean. "We'd never jump into a situation like this again
without knowing more."
"But it takes a toll," added Jim. "I don't know if we'd have the
sheer emotional energy to relocate."
Asked by NCR to comment on the situation, Fr. Shuttleworth
declined, saying the issue was handled at the local level, and the Smiths, in
any event, were the ones who had resigned. No more detailed explanation than
that has been provided to parishioners at Lima or Durand. When questions arose
at the March Lima parish council meeting (from which Shuttleworth was absent),
"the chairman said the pastor has the right to hire and fire, and that's the
end of it," said Jackie Danzinger. "It was very cut and dry."
Mary Ann Pattison, a 37-year parishioner, said she asked
Shuttleworth if the Smiths had been teaching heresy and was told they had not;
their departure was due simply to their resignation.
"I don't understand this at all," said Lorena Weiss. "As a church
we're supposed to accept lesbians and divorced people, and we even have women
as lectors and Communion ministers. And we don't have room for these people
[the Smiths] with all their experience? It seems like such a waste of talent
and life." Mystery remains
Some parishioners were guarded in comment. "I think the Smiths did
OK and seemed to care about us," said Mary Hanson, a member of the education
committee, "but, you know, I don't want to rock the boat."
People in Lima are not very confrontational, explained Tom Bauer,
"but I can tell you this: Church attendance and weekly income is down at our
church."
In late March Shuttleworth wrote in the parish bulletin,
"Spreading rumors, idle talk and malicious gossip can quickly kill any life in
a community -- especially small communities where such things spread quickly.
(Need I say more?)"
Meanwhile, the Smiths wrote to current LaCrosse Bishop Raymond
Burke about their plight. "We believe Fr. Shuttleworth's action was abusive and
unjust," they said. "We were completely unaware that such serious problems
existed as to warrant our dismissal at midyear when positions in ministry are
not available." With no foreseeable means of income and employment and only
temporary housing, they said, "we are too young to retire and too old to seek
conventional employment. How does one get away with such an abuse of power?"
Burke replied in a letter, "I have spoken to Fr. Shuttleworth
about the matter, and he informed me that he had indicated to you on more than
one occasion his difficulties in working with you. ... I appreciate the
challenge which you have at present," but "I do not believe it is fair on your
part to place the burden of your future housing and financial well-being on the
Diocese of LaCrosse. ... Thank you for the service you have given. ... "
The LaCrosse chancellor, Franciscan Sr. Marlene Weisenbeck, said
pastoral associates usually receive a letter of appointment from the bishop and
are installed at a ceremony in the parish soon after their arrival. Since she
did not have a "full file" on this case, she could not explain why no steps had
been taken to formalize the Smiths' status during their 20 months on the job.
In any event, explained Weisenbeck, the fact that they were essentially
dismissed in the midst of their second year of service is immaterial, since all
LaCrosse diocesan employees (with the exception of school teachers) serve "at
the will" of the administration; neither pastoral associates nor ministers of
any kind are provided contracts. Nor, she added, are there any plans in the
diocese to change that policy.
Why the Smiths were forced out remains a mystery. Did their
ministry become an intolerable threat to the pastor? Did they offend some other
church employee or exceptionally important parishioner, leaving Shuttleworth
with little choice? An answer will probably never come because, as the
chancellor pointed out, decisions on matters like this are left to the pastor's
discretion, according to the Catholic "principle of subsidiarity."
The Smiths' situation, ironically, has sent shock waves as far
away as their former parish in Connecticut where they had been extremely
active. Fr. James Shanley, pastor of St. Elizabeth Seton, said, "It's even
raised issues here about what kind of agreements we have with pastoral
associates and directors of music and recreation. People wonder, if agreements
with the church go both ways or only one way? After all, the Smiths gave up
everything to go out there."
National Catholic Reporter, April 24,
1998
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