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NCR Funeral ripoffs, a diva and a great teacher
Because life is imperfect, we accept
it as a given that we will be routinely ripped off in various ways from birth
to death. Of these, the one that bothers me most is at the death end of the
spectrum. It is no secret that exorbitant prices and fantastic profits are the
rule rather than the exception in the funeral industry.
Jessica Mitford first blew the whistle back in 1963 with The
American Way of Death. The most tireless crusader of the moment is Fr.
Henry Wasielewski of Tempe, Ariz. For many years he worked to expose the steep
charges of funeral directors, the taking advantage of bereaved people at a
vulnerable time. NCR has reported on Wasielewskis activities and
the funeral industry numerous times, including Oct. 30, 1987; Sept. 13, 1996;
June 6, 1997; and Jan. 30, 1998.
The statistics on pricing are so blatant, the anecdotal evidence
about guiltifying loved ones into overspending so constant, one would have
expected an uproar if not a rebellion leading to reform. It turns out, the
hardest people to galvanize are the bereaved. Wasielewski created a Web site to
make it easier for people to compare prices and get better deals.
Then he established The Interfaith Funeral Information Committee.
Now he has prepared a leaflet. He would like every household to have a copy the
bereaved could pull down from the shelf when the time arrives. People
dont get ripped off because they are bereaved, he said in 1996.
They get ripped off because they are ignorant.
Theres no reason to be ignorant any longer. Wasielewski, a
raging pedagogue, has loaded the four pages with information. Taking the
crusade a stage further, he has founded the Good Shepherd Funeral Program,
which offers complete funerals in the state of Arizona. Good Shepherd,
furthermore, will help people in other states who wish to start similar
programs.
The leaflet does not deal with vague generalities; its full
of specific prices and has pictures of a dozen popular caskets. For example,
there is the Last Supper casket, which Good Shepherd sells for
$511. That is $200 above wholesale price, which sounds hefty enough, but
Wasielewski points out that most mortuaries charge from $1,000 to $3,000 above
wholesale. And thats just the coffin; some charge $4,000 to $10,000 for a
funeral.
The leaflet also lists the four most important consumer points
media should include in every article:
1. Know what is a fair price ($1,400-$2,200 total) funeral and
casket; then phone mortuaries until you find a fair-priced one -- regardless of
its distance.
2. Have viewing and all services in your church so that
youre not forced to use a high-priced mortuary nearby. (He notes that
some clergy are promoting this, though it is also a fact of life that many
clergy are uncomfortably cozy with the local undertaker, for seemingly mutual
benefit.)
3. Dont buy costly, fraudulent, protective-seal
caskets.
4. Dont buy prepay plans.
For 24-hour advice, the leaflet adds, or for printed materials --
including the new leaflet How Much Should Funerals with Beautiful Cakes
Cost? -- phone the committee in Phoenix at (602) 253-6814; or write to
2535 E. University, #2, Tempe AZ 85281; or check the Web site:
www.xroads.com/~funerals
Our Feb. 26 cover story featured
mezzo-soprano Barbara Dever whose singing career ranges from the worlds
opera houses to Sacred Heart Parish in Camden, N.J.
Now comes a CD called Coming Home: Barbara Dever in
Concert. This concert was not at the Met or Palermo but in St. Columcille
Parish Church in the village of Aughnacliffe, in the very middle of Ireland,
the parish where Devers Camden pastor, Fr. Michael Doyle, grew up.
In a program note Doyle writes of preparations for the big event
in local North Longford townlands, especially the issue whether to schedule it
before or after milking time. They opted for after: Cows and milkers
would be more content.
The program was modeled on the concerts of famed tenor John
McCormack. Dever, who is blessed with an amazing voice, began with such
religious pieces as Ave Maria and Hes Got the Whole
World, then moved on to several Irish favorites, from The Rose of
Tralee to She Moved Through the Fair to Down by the
Salley Gardens, written by W.B. Yeats. Finally, she sang several operatic
pieces in foreign languages but came back home to end with An Irish
Blessing. They hadnt heard the likes in Aughnacliffe for a very
long time.
For information about the CD, write to Box 372, Pitman NJ 08071 or
by e-mail to mezzodever@aol.com
You want to know how you know a good
teacher? Ill tell you. A good teacher is one remembered years later by
her or his students.
Congratulations, then, to NCR Special Report Writer Robert
J. McClory, recipient of the Excellence in Teaching Award from the Alumni
Association of Northwestern University. McClory, who has been teaching at
Northwesterns Madill School of Journalism for 11 years, was one of only
four teachers to be so honored.
Since he has been writing for NCR since practically
forever, we are very proud of him.
The Catholic News Service photo on
the front page depicts a character from a popular video game. It is a jarring
illustration of what, for too many of this countrys kids, is a chilling
cultural reality -- sexist, oversexed and violent. As this paper was going to
bed on the one-month anniversary of the Littleton, Colo., shootings, the debate
over teen violence, guns and media was still raging. And then there was another
shooting just before press time, at a high school in Conyers, Ga. We hope that
Teresa Malcolms story on page 14 offers a helpful and different slant on
the issue.
-- Michael Farrell
National Catholic Reporter, May 28,
1999
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