Books McNeills a bright guy, but his feet are still planted in
midair
BOTH FEET FIRMLY
PLANTED IN MIDAIR: MY SPIRITUAL JOURNEY By John J. McNeill
Westminster John Knox Press, 184 pages, $18.95
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By WILLIAM GRAHAM
Both Feet Firmly Planted in Midair is aptly titled. The
name is taken from a comment made about McNeill as a student by Jesuit Fr.
Gustave Weigel. The famous professor added: Wherever he goes, whatever he
does, there will be trouble, trouble, trouble. Even McNeill admits the
warning was prophetic.
A Jesuit for almost 40 years before his expulsion in 1987 for his
views on gay and lesbian sexuality, McNeill is a psychotherapist and lecturer.
This book chronicles his lifes journey and is an interesting read. It is
not particularly significant as a chronicle of gay and lesbian issues in or out
of the church, but it is a compelling look at one mans journey.
McNeill was attracted early on to Maurice Blondell, a French
preexistentialist philosopher from the turn of the century. McNeill found his
Jesuit vocation summed up in a passage of Blondells that asserts, in
part, one must give all for the all. McNeill sees his philosophical
work as having laid the theoretical basis for his movement into political and
social activism.
Early in his clerical career, McNeill was given the grace to
realize that his motive for praying the liturgy of the hours had been
fear. So he stopped: I closed my breviary and put it on the shelf.
Shortly after followed his compulsive acting out of sexual needs
followed by shame, guilt and self-hatred.
Then he found a new translation of Genesis: Every human
needs a companion of his or her kind. In his companionship with a gay
lover he met in, of all places, the papal palace at Avignon in France, McNeill
reports having found a peace and joy never experienced before. And that
relationship, amazingly, freed him to give all his psychic energy over to
completing my thesis on Maurice Blondell.
McNeills psychic energy seems to have had moving targets. He
later reports that his energy was caught up in a struggle to suppress sexual
needs. Then he made a decision to seek out a gay friendship, hoping that the
energy would be freed and made available for loving ministry. But
he was mugged three times in visits to gay bars. He found his lover in 1965 and
maintained the relationship while still living, at least part-time, in a Jesuit
community and serving as a professor of Christian ethics.
McNeill sees his own struggles as a recapitulation of
Blondells problems with the Vatican. He reports being astounded and
disgusted at never having been listed in the pages of America
among all the theologians silenced by the Vatican. McNeill seems
not to understand that debating and discerning the origins of homosexuality and
the place of gay and lesbian people in human society and in the eyes of God is
one thing; faithfulness to his promises another. Sexual orientation, or late
discovery of ones orientation, precludes neither the keeping of promises
nor honesty with ones community.
McNeill was instrumental in the founding of Dignity, but seems not
to forgive the organization for moving beyond him. His report of slights made
me wince.
Silenced by the Vatican in 1977, he responded with a hope that his
silence would be eloquent. He asserted that he would join those who had gone
before him: Blondell, Teilhard de Chardin, John Courtney Murray, Henri de Lubac
and many others.
McNeill laments that one of his books, released in 1996, was
ignored in the media because, as he sees it, his writing is too
religious or too pro-gay. He had hoped for a review in the
NCR, but was disappointed to find only a short put-down review
in the Booknotes column. Thats the Bookshelf
column that I have written for the last 10 years or so. He reports a
couple of sleepless nights and I felt bad when I read that
McNeill is clearly a bright man with an interesting story to tell,
but he is not the theological equal of Blondell. It is clear that, even at this
late date, he still has both feet firmly planted in midair.
William Graham writes the Bookshelf column for
NCR.
National Catholic Reporter, September 3,
1999
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