Gramick says no to Vatican silencing, expects
dismissal
By PAMELA SCHAEFFER
NCR Staff
Since being served in late May with a formal order of silence by
Sr. Rosemary Howarth, the general superior of her religious order in Rome, Sr.
Jeannine Gramick has purposefully moved toward expulsion from the School
Sisters of Notre Dame.
I expect to be dismissed, Gramick said in a recent
telephone interview. Gramick has said she is unable to cooperate with the
order, issued by Howarth under pressure from the Vatican, to refrain from
speaking about her experiences as a controversial minister to homosexuals.
It is very serious to be put under formal obedience, because
if you dont do what is required you are dismissed, Gramick
said.
Terms of the latest Vatican directive, aimed at Gramick and
Salvatorian Fr. Robert Nugent, her longtime coworker in ministry to
homosexuals, were presented as a clarification of a ban on their
pastoral work issued last July, though Gramick described it as an
expansion. They were summoned to Rome to receive the directive,
which prohibits them from:
- Speaking or writing about the ban or the ecclesiastical
processes that led up to it;
- Speaking or writing on matters related to homosexuality;
- Protesting against the ban or encouraging the faithful to
publicly express dissent from the official magisterium;
- Criticizing the magisterium in any public forum whatsoever
concerning homosexuality or related issues.
Nugent has said he will comply with the Vatican order, thus
assuring that he will remain a Salvatorian priest.
Gramick and Nugent founded New Ways Ministry, a ministry to
homosexuals, in 1977. Cardinal James E. Hickey of Washington has expressed
opposition to their work for nearly 20 years -- the approximate length of the
Vatican investigation that led to last years ban and the recent
silencing.
Gramick entered religious life at age 18. She said she deeply
loves her community and has never questioned her vocation to religious life. To
leave, she said, would be to sever bonds and relationships that have
developed over 40 years.
Nevertheless, Gramick said, the order to be silent violates her
conscience. I feel that no one has the right to ask another person not to
tell their own story to a group of people who are willing to listen.
In a May 25 statement she said, I choose not to collaborate
in my own oppression by restricting a basic human right.
Gramick said her provincial, Sr. Jane Burke of Baltimore, would be
overseeing her activities.
Church laws governing religious life require that members accused
of a grave offense -- including stubborn disobedience to the legitimate
prescripts of superiors in a grave matter -- be given two solemn warnings
at intervals of at least 15 days. If the warnings fail, the congregations
leaders may vote by secret ballot for dismissal. Such actions must be approved
by the Holy See. Members dismissed have a right of appeal to the Vatican office
for religious, the same office that asked Nugents and Gramicks
communities to take action against them.
Dismissals or forced resignations have occurred regularly, if
infrequently, in recent years. Formal orders of obedience have been rare since
the Second Vatican Council. Rather, decisions arrived at by mutual agreement
between a congregations leaders and members have become the norm.
Loretto Sr. Maureen Fiedler of Catholics Speak Out has urged
Gramicks superiors to write leaders of her order and urge them to stop
cooperating with the Vatican. And Gramick herself criticized procedures that
put the leaders of her order in the middle.
The recent Vatican directive has put our community leaders
in opposition to a member of the community, she said, and asks them
to do violence to an individual that they dont want to do. It has put us
in an awful situation.
Those familiar with such procedures, however, say using
established chains of command is standard modus operandi for Vatican
officials.
Howarth, speaking by telephone from Rome, said she had acted in
keeping with her conscience and the complexity of the case. I did call on
Jeannine to live out her vow of obedience to the congregation, which is a
congregation within the church, she said. Jeannine freely chose to
live within the parameters of our congregation and the church.
She added: I know the church isnt perfect, and neither
are we. But its our responsibility to deal with Jeannine, so I chose to
assume my authority and to accept my responsibility
in caring for the
person of Jeannine and in caring for the international congregation. I cannot
deal with Jeannine in isolation.
Howarth added, I want to recognize the positive aspects of
Jeannines dedicated service. The congregation, she said,
continues to support pastoral ministry to lesbian and gay persons. We
exclude no one from our concerns and we do want to respond to the urgent needs
of our time.
Burke, Gramicks provincial, said the disciplining of Gramick
and Nugent could represent a watershed moment for the church. It is
forcing religious congregations to deal with many lateral issues,
she said, such as the call of men and women religious to be a prophetic
voice within the church, and the responsibilities of leaders within that
context.
Weve got to avoid the temptation to speak and act as
if this were a single issue, she said.
National Catholic Reporter, June 16,
2000
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