Off camera, the serious side to Gay Pride
events
By JOHN L. ALLEN JR.
NCR Staff Rome
While most of the worlds news reports on World Pride 2000
have focused on predictable street theater -- drag queens, right-wing protests
and dueling barbs emanating from Vatican officials and gay rights activists --
the more intriguing aspects of this first-ever global gay pride festival have
taken place in relative quiet inside a Roman hotel.
There, past a substantial police cordon outside, a series of
lectures and panel discussions have provided insight into the civil and
religious forces shaping the lives of gays and lesbians around the world. For
observers used to thinking of gay pride as an American phenomenon,
the July 1-9 World Pride gathering has given the movement a distinctly
international stamp.
The event has also surfaced some of the tensions within Roman
Catholicism over homosexuality as a handful of Catholic speakers have voiced
gay-friendly views at odds with criticism streaming out of the Vatican. A July
3 session on religion and homosexuality, including gays and lesbians
representing Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism and other traditions in addition to
Christianity, ended with a call for religious institutions to respect,
honor and celebrate gifts of sexual diversity. (See text at
http://www.natcath.com/NCR_Online/documents/index.htm )
In the most dramatic expression of Catholic disapproval, Pope John
Paul II asked the controversial French Bishop Jacques Gaillot to withdraw at
the last minute as the keynote speaker for that July 3 session. Gaillot honored
the request, but made himself available to the media.
Sponsored by a variety of gay and human rights groups, the World
Pride festival has been in the works for three years. Initially it enjoyed the
support of civic authorities in Rome. In recent months, however, the Vatican
has pressured the city to either postpone the event or curtail it, charging
that it is inappropriate to hold a gay pride festival in the middle of the
churchs Jubilee year.
The city eventually decided the event could go forward, but
withdrew official sponsorship and funding.
Inside Romes Hotel Cicerone, where most sessions have been
held, polemics have largely given way to sober discussion of human rights and
religious dimensions to lesbian and gay experience.
William Hernandez, who heads El Salvadors lone support
network for gays and lesbians, told an opening news conference about harassment
in his country. Some 28 homosexuals have been killed since 1998, Hernandez
said, with only two cases investigated by the police. In both cases, the
investigations were prompted by special circumstances. In one, the murder took
place in front of a police officer; in the other, the victim was a U.S.
citizen.
Marco DePonte of Italys Amnesty International chapter cited
such experiences to argue that gay rights are a matter of basic human
rights.
Based on discussions here, this perspective may challenge some
commonly held notions in the gay community. For example, Surina Khan, a
Pakistani and president of the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights
Commission, said she rejects arguments that reparative therapy is a
hoax. Reparative therapy refers to efforts to reverse ones
homosexual orientation through a combination of psychotherapy and spiritual
direction.
Ive met people who say that Jesus is more important to
them than their sexuality, and I think we have to respect that, she said.
It is possible to be an ex-gay. In a human rights context, everyone has
the right to claim and define their own sexuality.
Several presenters challenged the widely held belief that pressure
for acceptance of homosexuality is a cultural export of morally relativistic
Western nations. Nelson Ng of Hong Kong, for example, told the group that China
has a long tradition of tolerance for diversity in sexual practice.
If you ask me, what is my sexual orientation, I say
its like hunger -- sometimes I eat rice and sometimes I eat
noodles, Ng said to laughter in the hall. If Im really
hungry, I eat both. In the traditional Chinese understanding, sexuality is just
like hunger, a matter of appetite.
Ng said that attitudes changed after British colonialism in the
19th century, when the Chinese picked up a strong taboo on same-sex relations
from the colonial ruling class. He called for the development of a
post-colonial theology of sexuality in Asia.
Ngs point was echoed by Sandhya, an activist based in New
Delhi, India, who noted that many conservative Indian critics of gay rights
regard homosexuality as a Western disease.
But there are references to gay and lesbian experiences in
Indian folktales and songs reaching back centuries, Sandhya said.
What we imported from the West was not homosexuality but
homophobia.
Anissa Helie, an Algerian who runs the International Solidarity
Network of Women Living Under Muslim Laws from her home in England, said the
West actually supports far-right groups opposed to gay rights in the Islamic
world. In the so-called free West, Khomeni lived in France before he came
back to Iran, she said, and the CIA funded the Taliban in
Afghanistan. Coincidentally, both Iran and Afghanistan today sentence gays to
death.
Nevertheless, Helie said that movements of support for gays and
lesbians are slowly emerging in Islamic nations.
Despite the multicultural tone of the conference, the proximity of
St. Peters has meant that the relationship between the gay rights
movement and Catholicism is never far from the surface at World Pride.
American Frank DeBernardo, head of the Washington, D.C.-based New
Ways Ministry, told the conference it is possible to be both a faithful
Catholic and pro-gay. We need to ask the Vatican, of what are you afraid?
Why cant rational dialogue take the place of oppressive silence?
DeBernardo said.
New Ways Ministry is an outreach group for gay and lesbian
Catholics founded by Salvatorian Fr. Robert Nugent and School Sister of Notre
Dame Jeannine Gramick. The Vatican barred both of them a year ago from pastoral
work with gays and more recently barred them from discussing their case (NCR,
June 16).
A progressive Italian priest, Franco Barbaro of Turin, has been
the only Catholic cleric to address the group. He said he was not a homosexual,
but he wanted to express solidarity.
The Vaticans obsessions come from those who have
become diseased with dogma. A culture of orthodoxy breeds rabid people,
Barbaro said.
As NCR went to press, the major flashpoint of World Pride week was
expected to come July 8, when organizers have vowed to lead a march to
Romes Coliseum in defiance of civic authorities who have asked them to
follow another route. Deborah Oakley Melvin, a San Francisco-based activist and
chief organizer for World Pride, told NCR that some 60 members of the European
Parliament would lead the procession, which is expected to draw 300,000
people.
At the same time, the streets of Rome will be filled with 200,000
Polish pilgrims here for a special benediction by John Paul II. Far-right
forces have promised a confrontation. Many are carrying banners in the streets
reading Gays at the Coliseum? With lions inside!
The e-mail address for John L. Allen Jr. is
jallen@natcath.org
National Catholic Reporter, July 14,
2000
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