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Books Living the gospel in families
FAMILY: A CHRISTIAN
SOCIAL PERSPECTIVE By Lisa Sowle Cahill Augsburg Fortress Press,
176 pages, $17 |
By KRIS BERGGREN
I may well be the only reviewer of Family: A Christian Social
Perspective by Lisa Sowle Cahill, a professor of theology at Boston
College, to be able to say that it made me cry.
I suppose my tears were prompted because I read in these pages my
own yearning to be faithful to gospel values as a parent, loving partner and
citizen, even as I experience the pull of wider culture where --
compassionate conservatism aside -- greed is good and self-interest
reigns supreme. Gospel values dictate that we fight those impulses both
personally and collectively. And, as Cahill acknowledges, its hard work:
All of us who aim to be Christian families ... realize that the Christian
life is truly the way of the cross as well as a journey to
redemption.
A central question posed by the author is whether
considering the family as church transforms society or undermines the
church. Cahill examines the historical evolution of the concept of family
as domestic church from the three distinct faith perspectives of St. John
Chrysostom, Martin Luther and the Puritans. Each interpretation of the
household codes found in early Christian writing and thought
emphasizes variations on expectations of family morality, roles and
responsibility, and civic duty. It seems clear that Americans are the spiritual
heirs of the Puritanical family values, which viewed faith as an agent
influencing civic society and culture. Puritans interpreted material privilege
as Gods favor and disenfranchisement as a sign of moral turpitude and
enforced a hierarchy both within and outside the family. (The author does point
out, however, that rhetoric and practice on this last matter often
diverged.)
She also looks for answers to her question in contemporary
communities of faith: Indeed, Cahill postulates that our most salient
contemporary model of Christian family values is the African-American extended
family circle.
Theologically and ethically, the black family, whether amid
success or fierce struggle, provides a paradigm of Christian family identity
that incorporates kingdom values of mutual sacrifice, inclusion, patience,
endurance, and hope and trust in God.
In a chapter called Lessons from African-American
Families, Cahill cites a number of black scholars work on the
history of the black family in the United States. Despite being in large
measure historically excluded from mainstream economic and social
opportunities, and left to bear the brunt of poor institutional policies
contributing to ghettoization and urban poverty, African-Americans have cared
for not only their own nuclear families but also for extended family, the
communitys children and neighbors in need. She also cites a 1984 pastoral
letter, What We Have Seen and Heard, written by the 10 black
Catholic bishops, which invoked the popes exhortation to share the
gift of our blackness with the church in the United States, especially
the African-American experience of family as expansive, inclusive and
non-judgmental.
The pitfalls of current ideas about welfare reform and the
injustices inherent in our global economy also meet a worthy critique here.
Cahill contends that public social structures and institutions -- government,
charitable agencies, the education system, for example -- must not only respond
to the needs of families, especially families without privilege of wealth and
social status, but these institutions must share information and empower the
communities they serve. Families in communities -- through churches, community
organizations and the like -- must, in turn, search for ways to create
solutions and link with other like-minded counterparts.
And Catholic cultural institutions must lead the way. To have an
effective future role, combating poverty and supporting family life will be
contingent on the grassroots interest and commitment of Catholics as well as
the willingness and ability of Catholic agencies to foster broader public
accountability for the poor.
Finally, Cahill hammers home two criteria for a truly
gospel-oriented paradigm of family as domestic church, both of which she says
are evolving as played out in lived family experience and as noted in the color
commentary of official ecclesiastical documents such as papal encyclicals and
bishops pastoral letters: Gender equity must continue to become more
balanced in family life. And all families must contribute not only to their own
self-sufficiency and well-being, but to the common good.
So, let the phrase Christian family values shed its
vernacular connotation as code for white, heterosexual, two-parent and
privileged. This work offers both affirmation and challenge to me as I continue
to negotiate the delicate path between faith and culture. It is also a fresh
and insightful contribution to public discourse about how we raise our
children, and how we thereby raise up our common good.
Kris Berggren is a regular columnist for NCR. She can be
reached by e-mail at bergolk@earthlink.net
National Catholic Reporter, November 3,
2000
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