Abused nuns:
Reaction Readers respond to reports of abuse
As the national organizations that represent the leadership of
U.S. Catholic sisters, religious priests and brothers, we feel compelled to
comment on the reports of sexual abuse of nuns by priests in Africa. We are
dismayed to learn of the abuse of any woman, be she a Catholic sister or not,
and are deeply disturbed by the content of the recent media coverage.
Our conferences have represented our leaders concerns on
abuse to the appropriate Vatican offices. We have been advised that the Vatican
offices responsible continue to take steps to investigate the matter.
In any culture or situation, those in power have an ethical
responsibility not to exploit others for personal gains. Further, in all cases
of abuse, the victim is never to blame. We can only have compassion for those
injured and seek to understand those who perpetrate such abuse, while seeking
justice for the victims.
The horrible nature of the reported sexual abuse is undeniable.
However, it is important to keep these instances in the larger perspective of
religious life. We affirm that the vast majority of priests, brothers and
sisters live lives fully committed to justice and dedicated to the service of
the vulnerable in society. As sisters, priests and brothers, members of the
same religious family, we are all betrayed by this violation.
We commend the Vatican for acknowledging the problem and
communicating the efforts it has made to date. We are continuing to follow the
issue and trust that further appropriate action will be taken. United in our
call to do justice, we believe that bringing the truth of this situation out of
darkness into the light illuminates the path toward the mercy of God, healing
and reconciliation.
(Br.) STEPHEN GLODEK, SM (Sr.) MARY MOLLISON,
CSA Silver Spring, Md.
Marianist Br. Stephen Glodek is president of the Conference of
Major Superiors of Men. Sister of St. Agnes Mary Mollison is president of the
Leadership Conference of Women Religious.
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As a Catholic and African from the region affected, I would like
to express my shock at such a report. I do not dispute the contents in terms of
facts, but rather the tone of the whole issue. I am only surprised that the
persons who made this report were pointing a finger at Africa alone concerning
the issues of celibacy and the repercussions involved with it. Is it truly just
an African problem? Do these people mean to tell the world that it is only
Africans who have problems with celibacy? I am more surprised that even one of
those interviewed, Benedictine Fr. Nokter Wolff, who is a common frequenter of
Africa, confirms this report without qualification. Is he sure that it is just
an African problem?
I have lived as a religious and do not want to see my former
brothers and sisters in the life being isolated and maligned. It is not in good
spirit that Africans who have experienced such suffering in the past under
discrimination of all kinds should keep tolerating such blatant racism and
hypocrisy.
I was also surprised to read that the Catholic church authorities
have acknowledged such a report the way it is. I still ask, is it just an
African problem this issue? The report, to say the least, was racist and
hypocritical. I still stress that the African church has a duty to reflectively
answer this report. If they receive it lightly, such abuses will continue.
As far as I know, this problem is not a merely African one. It is
human and so it should be addressed as a human one. The church, our church,
should come up clearly and discuss this issue.
PAUL SHIMIYU Rome
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As a former Peace Corps Volunteer in West Africa, I would guess
that the horrors happening in African convents and rectories have everything to
do with the clash of cultures.
The extended family relationships that Africans value so much are
being seriously eroded by urbanization and mass emigration -- so seriously that
the church has got to begin working with the family-based culture, rather than
against it, in building on what is good in Africa. I feel sad to think that in
promoting the consecrated life as a more blessed path to sanctity
than marriage, the churchs message (that family ties are not so
important) probably contributes to corrupting the African clergy and
religious.
MARGE SALEWIC Oil City, Pa.
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Thank you for airing this. It is rather sad that an American
liberal journal for Catholics must be left by the hierarchy to expose such
dishonorable behavior, but in the current climate within our church who else
would do so? In 1995, Pope John Paul II apologized for the past historical
injustices toward women, but his bureaucracy obviously has selected its own
contrary interpretations of his dictums. I pray that your exposé will
embolden others in Rome to speak out and to take action against such behavior
against women innocents.
SALLYANNE OFNER Prescott, Ariz.
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As I read your chilling story of the sexual abuse of young nuns by
priests, I was reading Scott Peck. Citing Jung, Peck said that human evil is
not the shadow itself, but the refusal to meet this shadow, which Peck defined
as militant ignorance.
This is a telling characterization of how the institutional church
has generally treated the growing awareness of the shadow side of mandatory
celibacy: denial, minimization, blaming the victim or the courageous
messenger.
Im reminded again of what Cardinal Franjo Seper observed at
the 1971 synod in Rome. He said that he was not at all optimistic that
celibacy was in fact being observed. He was right then. Sadly,
tragically, his honest observation is even more accurate 30 years later. May
God have mercy on us all for our willful blindness, our arrogance -- and our
silence.
DANIEL C. OROURKE Cassadaga, N.Y.
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You have done a vital service to the church, to the nuns and
priests who feel they must keep the churchs most terrible secrets, and to
the women who suffer profoundly from the professional, financial and personal
inferiority to which the church has sentenced them. Until women become equal in
the church, none of this will change.
ANGELA BONAVOGLIA Tuckahoe, N.Y.
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The fact that this appalling and evil behavior has been going on
and being reported to the Vatican for the last seven to eight years, and yet
the Vatican apparently has done little to stop the evil, is further evidence of
the moral sickness among Vatican bureaucrats and among bishops who protect each
other and their priests. Using the evidence available, the pope should go to
St. Peters Square today and publicly denounce the priests and bishops
involved -- and those priests and bishops should be appropriately punished by
the church and by the civil courts.
Instead I read in an Associated Press story, The solution to
the problem was focused education for priests, impressing the importance of
celibacy, Cervellera added. Education? Do priests not know that rape is
wrong? Do they not know that abortion and contraception is wrong -- mortally
sinful? Are they not taught this in the seminaries? Where is the strong and
courageous church leadership on this travesty? Where is the pope and other
bishops? They are silent. Strong church leaders would not stand for this -- and
it would not have taken seven years and a newspaper story for action finally to
be taken.
MICHAEL CHAPMAN Alexandria, Va.
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The issues discussed in the article by John L. Allen Jr. and
Pamela Schaeffer are grave and cannot be wished away or dismissed with a wave
of the hand. However, reading between the lines, one discovers that the
intention of the authors of the article is malice and a calculated attempt to
further tarnish the image of the priesthood and religious life, which have
failed to lose their dignity and appeal despite the efforts of some frustrated,
disgruntled, disenchanted members of the church.
The authors of the article commit the same fallacy of
overgeneralization that most American and European writers commit whenever they
write about Africa and her problems. Africa is a large continent and as such
using isolated incidences to blanket this great continent of hope and promise
is a great act of disservice to Africans and the Catholic church.
The report paints a horrible picture of African priests and nuns
as moral degenerates, ignorant of the teachings of the church, who do not
respect the rights and dignity of women and do nothing else than to go about
fornicating while the Vatican turns the other way. But this is not true. It is
not a surprise, however, that such insidious attack should come from some
Americans who have always seen Africa as a continent of disease, hunger, war
and death -- a continent that should be helped by Gods ordained
messiahs from Europe and America. It is also curious that these
self-appointed messiahs always claim to love Africa and the church.
It is also curious that none of the originators of the reports
agreed to an interview to authenticate them. I keep wondering when
Africas so-called friends and sympathizers, who incidentally are the
architects of African problems, will leave Africa alone. Solve first the
problems of sexual abuse by priests and nuns in your continent first before you
move to Africa. Besides, is there nothing good in Africa to report?
DONATUS CHUKWU Chicago
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The article was an eye opener to many over what the missionaries
we support do out there in Africa. Our missionaries, who instead of preaching
and bearing witness to the gospel, turn themselves into spies, recording and
reporting sins of priests and nuns in a huge continent that is as large as
North America and Europe combined. There is no doubt in my mind that our
missionaries have failed in their mission and as such should pack up their bags
and come home in shame.
I would rather intensify my support to hard-working African
priests and religious than give a dime to our holier-than-thou missionaries. I
am not suggesting that there are no sexual abuses, but we are no better than
the Africans. White missionaries should know that their mission is over. Let us
wait for the African missionaries to come and re-evangelize us.
JIM FRANK New York
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Your article about the sexual abuses by clergy on religious women
is excellent. I had heard about this for the first time in Gmunden, Austria,
during the 1996 European Womens Synod. Dina Cormick, a former Carmelite
sister from Durban had told us about it. But we had no proof. Thank you so much
for doing such a good job!
ELFRIEDE HARTH Versailles, France
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Are we really still teaching our nuns that obedience to men is
their highest calling? Are we really putting men in priestly robes who think
the convent is their private access to clean sex? Join the
priesthood and enjoy clean sex, says the seminary brochure. Celibacy? Not to
worry -- it means you cant have a wife, but children are OK.
Or in the United States: Celibacy? Not to worry -- it means
avoiding sex with women (you dont like women anyway), but all other kinds
of sex get the official wink.
Has this situation finally struck your gag reflex like it has
mine? Then its time to find our voices and tell anyone who will listen
what a rotten core we have developed.
JOHN HOUK Mount Sterling, Ky.
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Celibacy is difficult enough, even when embraced as an ideal. When
imposed as a condition for something else (ordination) it is nearly impossible.
When will Rome finally wake up?
(Fr.) RICHARD W. KROPF Johannesburg, Mich.
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I understand the need to publish these disturbing reports of
sexual abuse of nuns by priests. Much needs to be done to aid the victims,
punish the abusers and prevent future occurrences.
Yet I cannot help but echo the Vaticans fears that these
appalling acts will be used to discredit the good work and heroic chastity of
so many nuns and priests in Africa and elsewhere. These scandals never seem to
end, and the witness of so many good and heroic nuns and priests is ignored. I
would like to believe optional celibacy is the answer, but even then I can
picture articles on clerical spousal abuse and adultery!
There is no encouraging word from our culture for we priests and
nuns who keep working. Perseverance in the face of scandal and ridicule seems
to be the only avenue open to all who care about the priesthood and religious
life. What is threatened by these continual scandals is not only celibacy
itself but the very idea of virtue of any kind. The church seems submerged in
one long Lent. I hope Easter comes soon!
(Fr.) ROBERT HYDE Whitney Point, N.Y.
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The report on the abuse of women religious meshed with what I
heard from sisters in South Africa -- the fallacious interpretation of celibacy
begins in seminary days. Silence and secrecy are destructive plagues for any
institution, especially religious institutions.
While the issue is multifaceted, it would appear to me that one of
its roots is in the longstanding hierarchical concept of power in the church
with its focus on absoluteness and control. Others are the persistent refusal
to examine fully with candidates the meaning of sexuality in their lives and
its spiritual connections.
When the patriarchal model of church is superimposed upon
male-dominated societies, sexual abuse is very likely.
(Sr.) ROBERTA MILLER Columbus, Ohio
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I hope the official church will realize that its own policies
regarding the status of women have somewhat created a tolerance for such
outrageous happenings. It is good that the Vatican has now publicly
acknowledged that there is a problem, although I am sure the problem is more
widespread than Rome would like to think, or wants the world to know.
What a mockery this entire situation makes of the churchs
obsession with the sexual behavior of married people practicing birth control,
divorced persons seeking remarriage without annulment, and priests seeking
laicization who have realized they are called to ministry but not to celibacy.
It is time for the church to value sexuality as the gift it is and to emphasize
its positive contribution to Christian life.
JANELLE LAZZO Roeland Park, Kan.
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Concerning the sad story about priests sexually abusing nuns and
minors, the church must act without delay and with great decisiveness in
dealing with this situation. Although such action is generally not in the
nature of the church, failing to do so will only make the problem worse. John
Paul must ensure that where there is sufficient evidence against a priest, the
offending priest must immediately and permanently become an inactive or
ex-priest.
I know that there is a feeling among some in the church that she
should show mercy and compassion toward the offending priests. The people who
hold this view are confusing mercy and compassion with standards and the good
of the church. Removing rapists from the ranks of the priesthood does not deny
them mercy through repentance and reconciliation. For those ex-priests who take
their faith seriously, they will seek reconciliation. For those who do not seek
reconciliation, we do not need them as priests in the first place.
By appearing to take no serious action, the church simply provides
more ammunition to those who would hate her. The cumulative effect of these
incidents takes an obvious toll on the church and her faithful. While the
faithful recognize that priests, as humans, are sinners just like those of us
in the pews, we the faithful will not accept priests who are rapists or in any
way have sexually abused nuns or minors.
OWEN S. LIMSTROM Tacoma, Wash.
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I suspect that the reaction of most NCR readers to this
tabloid journalism was, This filth is just what we dont need.
For NCR to report an assertion that sexual abuse of nuns by
priests ... is a serious problem ... in Africa and other parts of the
developing world is much more demeaning to your publication than it is to
the priests and religious here and abroad, most of whom are above reproach.
RICHARD ROSENBAUM Birmingham, Mich.
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You insinuate that the leadership of the church in Africa does not
understand as a value the celibate life. How much does the group of American
married priests who sought a re-admission into the ministry just a few years
ago from the Vatican understand celibacy and consecrated life? How much do the
American clergy and religious understand celibacy in the face of the increasing
fall in vocations and the rise in the number that leave?
Abortion is foreign to the traditional African culture that
accepts children born out of wedlock without social stigma. Africans do not
enslave a productive woman by keeping her on the pill. The African believes
that a human being is greater than wealth. The strength of the African soil is
its people, so they believe in having many children. Americans believe in
wealth and power.
A priest or a nun who loses his or her vocation in Africa is
stigmatized socially. The reason is that at ordination or profession, the whole
community gets involved and that brings a great joy to them. So when one called
to this vocation quits, the whole community is equally thrown into trauma. They
feel as if God has deserted them.
The article is a disservice to the continent that is religiously
blessed with the sense of the divine, which makes an African a truly religious
man in all his actions. The concept of atheism is foreign to Africans. If we
changed so badly as not to respect the religious personality, it is then a
result of a wrong transmission of the Christian religion and the influence of
colonization.
Africa is the hope of the church of this millennium, given that
atheism has become the preferred option among the young in the developed world.
But let it be noted that we cannot be subjected to cosmetic engineering to make
us Europeans or Americans, neither physically nor mentally. The joy of humanity
should be in the differences of human cultures. It is appalling to note that a
team that claims to love a continent can spend precious time to castigate the
same people.
MALACHY OSUNWA Madrid, Spain
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The March 16 article on priestly seduction/abuse of nuns in Africa
reminded me of two things. First, you mentioned the priests are highly educated
in theology and can use false arguments such as Celibacy means we have
promised not to marry. However, we can have sex together without breaking our
vows. Compare that with the popular book The Sexual Celibate, by
Donald Goergen, a U.S. Dominican provincial: It would be the exception if
genital love worked to the advantage of celibate love. Only after
counseling, prayer and spiritual direction could one conscientiously make such
a decision. When fornication is not seen as wrong always, expect many
people to consider themselves exceptional.
Secondly, Gabon has flourishing missions of the Society of St.
Pius X and also the Vatican-approved Institute of Christ the King. These
priests are known for three things: wearing a cassock, saying a real
Mass (popular with many Gabonais) and not keeping women. Catholic Africa
is in certain respects like Europe often was before Trent. It needs a St. Pius
V, St. Charles Borromeo and St. Vincent de Paul.
(Br.) ANSGAR SANTOGROSSI, OSB St. Benedict,
Ore.
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I worked in two of the African countries cited in the report for
over 12 years as a missionary sister, teaching in girls schools. How
often girls would come to me saying they thought they were going to hell
because they told a lie in confession. When I asked them why they
felt that way, it was invariably that during the confession the priest would
ask about sexual customs performed commonly among certain African ethnic
groups. Girls are conditioned to never speak about anything sexual with a man.
So the girls denied practicing these customs, although in truth, they did. I
tried to reassure them that there was no sin if they did not willingly choose
to offend God.
It was during these years working with African girls and women
that I became more and more convinced that there is a crying need for women
priests to minister to the girls and women in Africa and other countries where
females are conditioned not to speak with men about sexual matters. Mother
Dengel founded the Medical Missionaries to work with women in India, because by
custom women were forbidden to go to male doctors. That was for the good of the
womens bodies. I think there is also an urgent need for women priests to
care for the womens souls. Who but indigenous women could understand the
culture of their sisters? And who else would have the ability to reassure,
comfort and instruct them appropriately?
If there had been women priests in Africa to minister to the girls
and women, rape and abuse of young African nuns and other women would certainly
have been greatly reduced. These and similar atrocities are crying out for
redress. The ordination of women in the Catholic church will not take place
soon. But the church, especially those in positions of authority, must take
swift action and listen to the plight of these little ones of
Christ and deal justly with the perpetrators. Please, no cover up!
MARY ANNE SONNENSCHEIN Silver Spring, Md.
National Catholic Reporter, April 6,
2001
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