Viewpoint Absolutism a losing strategy
By ANN PETTIFER
Many of us are troubled by abortion,
yet not at all sympathetic to pro-life politics.
This was brought home to me while I was in England in 2000, where
the case of the Siamese twins from Malta was being hotly debated. Everyone from
bus conductors to Oxford ethicists was having her or his say. The twins
parents did not want their fused babies separated, as the one twin was certain
to die. They believed that nature should take its course, which meant that both
children would die in a matter of months. The British courts ruled otherwise
and ordered the infants separated so as to give the one with a complete set of
organs a chance for survival.
The Solomonic dilemma produced a few surprises. A number of people
who viewed themselves as firmly pro-choice found themselves, in supporting the
parents wishes, on the same side as the pro-life Roman Catholic church.
Such was the position of my son and a friend; both are doctors in British
hospitals. He is a specialist in general medicine, she a cardiologist.
After we had talked about the twins, the conversation turned to
abortion. I asked them where they stood on the issue. While they were
uncompromising about keeping abortion legal, both expressed abhorrence at the
practice -- having witnessed it as medical students -- save in extreme
circumstances. At the same time, they voiced considerable distrust of pro-life
politics.
We recoil from the absolutism, the rigid certainties in a world of
contingency. Here in the United States, the impasse over abortion has become
something of a national scandal: No other country in the world is as polarized
on the issue. Yes, I am often frustrated by those of my comrades on the left
who are not always sensitive to the difficulties some of us have with abortion;
but, to be fair, these same lefties are the first to advocate substantial
social and financial support for impoverished women with children. They take
seriously the need to educate women on the prevention of pregnancy. They strive
for equality between the sexes and to demystify sex, making it both responsible
and fun.
The blame for the abortion impasse has to be laid for the most
part at the door of the pro-life constituency -- the consequence of its
dogmatism and intransigence. I share its respect for fetal life, but I am
perplexed by the refusal to find common ground with people outside the movement
so as to ensure that, as far as is possible, pregnancy is always intended. The
pro-lifer is almost always hostile to education that would help the
hormone-driven young to protect themselves from random conception. Just think
of the abortions that result each year from the urgent coupling of sexually
naive, guilt-ridden teenagers. In the Netherlands, where young people are savvy
and sexually informed, the abortion rate is a fraction of that in the United
States. Moreover, those abstinence programs the pro-lifers called for seem to
be doing more harm than good.
Last December, The New York Times published a report on a
survey of the sexual practices of boys in the age range 15 to 19. The survey,
undertaken by the Alan Guttmacher Institute, documents some of the bizarre and
worrying consequences of these abstinence programs, particularly for girls.
Abstinence has come to be defined as anything other than vaginal sex. So now,
young women in high school are servicing their male classmates with oral and
anal sex.
Health screening shows that some of these girls are contracting
pharyngeal gonorrhea. Linda Alexander of the American Social Health Association
had this to say: We are seeing more evidence of anal sex in cultures with
a high value on technical virginity, and it often causes lacerations and
micro-abrasion that can lead to infections. You have to worry about AIDS. And
we have also heard that some girls use muscle relaxants, which can also be
risky.
The contradictory nature of the pro-life movement shows up in
other ways. Nowhere in the halls of Congress can one find lobbying on behalf of
poor mothers and their children, or for increased foreign aid to combat high
infant mortality in the Third World. Why, one wonders, is the concern for life
not more all encompassing? Why the exclusive fixation on the fetus? However,
nothing raises my dander more than the movements tin ear when it comes to
dealing with the sexually abused woman.
On the anniversary of Roe v. Wade in January, an
organization calling itself The Human Life Alliance produced a glossy
eight-page insert for Notre Dames campus newspaper. The propaganda was
routine stuff, though the captious focus on saving pregnancies that result from
rape and incest was new. Should the ejaculate find its way to the ovum, the
fusion of cells takes immediate precedence over the violated woman. The
argument advanced was that abortion after rape compounds the violence. There
was a winning photo of a Marie Osmond look-alike, shown with a pretty daughter
who was conceived in rape. They made it sound quite jolly. When
dealing with a rape victim, the paramount concern should be pastoral --
designed to limit her trauma. No matter where we stand on abortion, every fiber
of common sense ought to tell us that a pregnancy deepens the tragedy. Ask
Bosnian women raped by the enemy during the Balkans conflict. To argue that the
cells of an ovum fertilized by force have an instant nonnegotiable right to
keep multiplying is a form of madness -- of the kind you might expect to find
in a dystopia like the one described in Margaret Atwoods novel, The
Handmaids Tale.
If the pregnancy-to-heal-rape approach was offensive, the reason
given for nonintervention in cases of incest was downright malignant. No matter
if the incest victim was an 11-year-old, impregnated by, say, the father or
grandfather, this propaganda sheet urged her to bear the child in order that
the incestuous relative could be named and shamed after the birth. There was
not an iota of concern for the state of mind of the child-woman or for the
dangerous ordeal of pregnancy for an immature body. Even more telling, the
issue of male violence was not even touched upon.
I am painfully aware of the futility of appeals to the pro-life
mentality to cede some ground, to meet halfway those of us who are pro-choice
but troubled by abortion. Absolutism does not yield, by definition. Moreover,
the pro-life movement appears to have gone too far down the path of demonizing
the pro-choice position for any cooperation. So we continue to waste time
fighting the unwinnable abortion war when we could be talking constructively
about strategies for the prevention of unwanted pregnancies, thus reducing the
incidence of abortion.
Let me close with a story that suggests that the pro-choice
position can be more effective in preventing abortion. I have only once been
approached for money to pay for an abortion. The young woman had been raised in
a conservative, strictly pro-life Catholic family. She had terminated a
pregnancy the year before. Frightened and desperate she turned to me because
she had never heard me take a hard-line, pro-life position. All she needed was
reassurance that she was not going to be coerced into continuing with the
pregnancy. I gave her my word that I would stand by her, but suggested that it
would be imprudent to rush headlong into an abortion. I advised her to see a
doctor. The upshot was that the examining physician recommended continuing with
the pregnancy as she was into her fourth month. Together we found an agency
that arranged the adoption, which is what my friend wanted. The baby, now a
young man, would not have been born had I been a pro-life absolutist.
Ann Pettifer is publisher of Common Sense, an
independant newspaper circulated at Notre Dame.
National Catholic Reporter, December 14,
2001
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