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Todays sisters: A different
face
Women entering the churchs established religious orders in
the past 20 years bear little resemblance to their predecessors of 40 years
ago. They were in most cases older on entry, far better educated and from very
different backgrounds. Here is a sample from attendees at the Loyola
conference:
- Jackie Hittner, 41, a native of St. Louis, entered the Mercy
order at 26 after earning masters degrees in library science and business
administration at a college in Georgia. I wanted to establish myself with
women whose work makes them bigger than themselves, she says, and I
saw the joy they had in life. I knew Id be OK. Since her
profession, Hittner has served largely as a librarian, most recently as library
director at St. Joseph College in Maine. She does not regard herself as a
wilting Marian-the-librarian type. Its the constant interaction
with students and faculty I most enjoy, she says. Im teaching
people how to think critically, how to organize their ideas. In August
she will become reference librarian at St. Louis University.
- Caryn Williams, 38, remembers being distracted one day in high
school when a teacher asked the class what each wanted to do after graduation.
The girl in front of me said she might want to be a nun, says
Williams, so I just said the same thing. In fact, she had given no
previous thought to the idea, but once said aloud, the idea stayed with her.
After college in Ohio, Williams worked as a reporter with a small newspaper in
Indiana, earned a masters degree in social work and served with the Peace
Corps in Gabon. She decided to enter religious life while on a retreat; she
picked the Notre Dame de Namur order out of a vocation catalog because
they were big in communications and social services. She entered in 1994
at the age of 30 and made her final profession in June. My mom was pretty
angry when I entered, she says. She thought Id have to wear a
habit and shed never see me again. But it hasnt worked out that
way. Williams is a child psychotherapist at a large hospital-affiliated
clinic in Cincinnati.
- Juana Mendez, 51, has just left the young-sister category, but
she has been a member of Mother Setons Sisters of Charity only since 1995
and is still one year away from final vows. Besides being a religious woman
working as a pastoral associate at a parish in Covington, Ky., Mendez is a
mother of three children and grandmother of four. Religious life had been
burning in my heart, she says, since she came to this country with her
family from Puerto Rico as a child. Nevertheless, she married at 18, had three
children in five years, and was divorced at 26. The marriage was later
annulled. Mendez worked in Cleveland public schools while raising her family.
When they were finally on their own, she tested the waters of sisterhood living
for a time with a group of Marianist sisters, then made her decision. It
wasnt easy for her grown children at first, she confesses. They
thought they had lost me forever. Now theyre OK. We see each other often,
and they call me Mom, the sister. Religious life wasnt
easy for her either at first. I found poverty and obedience
difficult, she says, but I had lived with my mother and a niece
when the kids were young, so Ive always been in a community of one kind
or another. Mendez relishes her work in a largely Hispanic parish where
she assists with immigration problems, attends court hearings and teaches
English as a second language.
- Kay Kramer, 39, acknowledges that religious life may look very
different in the future. But meanwhile, she is so fully occupied bringing new
life into the world as a nurse-midwife at a medical center in Cincinnati that
she has little time to worry. In college she was torn between interests in
liturgy and in nursing. She chose nursing because the needs of poor minority
women seemed more pressing. She chose religious life (with the Congregation of
Divine Providence) because, she says, I wanted to be present to those in
need for a lifetime. Her cheerful, lifelong faith in God was shaken
recently, she admits, when she was diagnosed with cancer just five months after
her mother was stricken with the same illness. I didnt know how to
trust or what to believe, she says. However, her trust has been restored,
she says, because of the great support she received from members of her
community during treatment. Kramer considers trust a very important aspect of
her job: I have to trust that God guides my hands to do what must be done
every time I deliver a baby, she says.
- Evelyn Ovalles, 48, entered the Sisters of Providence (of St.
Mary of the Woods, Ind.) in 1997, ending what she calls many long years
of running away from the call. I used to dream a lot that I was being chased
and I kept trying to get away. Since I became a sister, I dont have that
dream anymore. Born in the Philippines, Ovalles came to the United States
early in life, earned a law degree and worked as a paralegal in the Los Angeles
archdiocese chancery office. I waited so long to become a sister because
I felt unworthy, she says, and always I was seeking a
community. After a period of discernment, she made the move. Now Ovalles
is working in the marriage tribunal for the Gary, Ind., diocese and is studying
canon law. Though the work is similar to what she did in Los Angeles, her
attitude is different, she says. That was a job, this is a mission -- to
bring justice and mercy to people.
-- Robert McClory
National Catholic Reporter, July 5,
2002
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