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story God
and beer in the summertime
By RENÉE M.
LaREAU
It is a hot, humid, late-summer evening in Evanston, Ill., an
urban outgrowth of Chicago and home to Northwestern University. As the daylight
begins to fade, 20- and 30-somethings wander into ice cream shops and hip
little pubs. Summer school students glide past on Rollerblades or play soccer
near Lake Michigan. It seems like a typical lazy, easy summer night.
But in the cool basement of the Sheil Catholic Center on
Northwesterns campus the atmosphere is more reflective. More than 80
young adults, participants in the Chicago archdioceses Theology on Tap
program, deliberate thoughtfully and silently as they sit at round tables and
write. Music by Christian singer Michael Poirer plays softly from a CD player
in the corner of the room. Periodically, the clink of glass breaks the silence,
as participants sip from cold bottles of Amstel Light and Samuel Adams during
this 10-minute reflection time.
Jesuit Fr. Michael Sparough, the featured speaker at this Theology
on Tap site, gave this group much food for thought in his presentation on
decision-making. He encouraged them to reflect on their own decisions in the
areas of friendship, career, prayer life and sexuality. After the reflection
time, he invited participants to divide into small groups for discussion.
Sparough encouraged them to share at a level of intimacy they are comfortable
with. Dont put something out there thats kinda raw, he
half-joked, provoking an immediate wave of laughter.
In his presentation, Sparough began with a brief biographical
sketch of St. Ignatius, painting a vivid picture of a gambling, dueling,
womanizing soldier who became a saint, and introducing the crowd to the
Ignatian method of discernment.
The basis of our decision-making, Sparough said,
should be that I want what God wants. Sometimes we think of God as
raining on our parade and taking away all the fun. It is an act of faith to
believe that God wants not less life for us, but more.
Who in this room doesnt want to be fulfilled? he
bellowed. God wants that for each one of us!
Sparough spoke at the third week of Theology on Tap at
Northwestern, and numbers at Sheil rose from 50 participants during the first
two weeks of the program to 80 participants this evening. Both the topic and
the speaker brought these young adults from as far away as suburban Naperville,
nearly 40 miles to the west, and industrial East Chicago, more than 20 miles to
the east.
This topic cannot be more relevant for someone in their 20s
and 30s, said Max Crespo-Deynes, a 39-year-old product manager for Lucent
Technologies, who lives in Naperville. When you are done with school you
face many hard choices. You look for anything that helps.
Alina Mejia, 35, said she has heard Sparough speak many,
many times.
Sparough, director of Charis, a young adult ministry for the
Chicago Province of Jesuits, said that his decision-making talk is back
by popular demand.
Young adults know very little about St. Ignatius, he
said, yet he offers some really good criteria for decision-making.
And the decision-making that characterizes a young adults life, Sparough
said, can be traumatizing.
They decide between celibate and married, consider career
paths, children, sexual orientation. These are decisions that will determine
the rest of their lives.
That young adults will drive for miles to hear a Theology on Tap
speaker comes as no surprise to Fr. John Cusick, director of Young Adult
Ministry for the Chicago archdiocese and associate pastor at Old St.
Patricks Church. This is an age group that will drive all over town
to see a good movie, he said. The Theology on Tap Web site includes
driving directions to all program locations. Some people will go to a
location that is closer to work than home, Cusick said.
This summer 72 parishes, universities and organizations in five
contiguous dioceses and archdioceses -- Chicago, Milwaukee, Joliet, Ill.,
Rockford, Ill., and Gary, Ind., hosted a Theology on Tap program during the
same four-week period. According to Cusick, the second half of the summer is an
ideal time for parishes to host this catechetical and evangelical outreach to
young adults.
Theres no competition. All the rah-rah partying takes
place during the first half of the summer. College students are home, and there
is no competition from the media.
In Chicago, Milwaukee and Gary, Theology on Tap concludes with a
Mass and picnic for all participants. The closing Mass in the Chicago
archdiocese Aug. 11 featured a young adult choir, Cardinal Francis George as
celebrant, and concelebrant priests who have been involved in the program.
After the liturgy, young adults were treated to food, a disc jockey, and games
on the lawn of the cardinals residence. Approximately 1,000 participants
attended the mass, and about 800 moved on to the picnic, according to program
coordinator Judi Black.
One parish in cooperation with other area parishes hosts the
program, and welcomes anyone college age through the 30s, single and married.
Reaching out to a population traditionally neglected by the Catholic church is
one of the primary aims of Theology on Tap.
The evangelical and catechetical program for young adults began in
Chicago in June 1981 as a response to a conversation between a priest, a youth
minister and a college senior. The senior had begun to look ahead to his first
few months in the real world, and had many questions concerning his
future personal identity and fulfillment: Will I be more than my
job? What will it mean to fall in love? What does it
mean to be Catholic? Where does God fit in with all this?
That conversation evolved into a four-week summer program that now
hosts 3,000 to 4,000 young adults each week for a speaker, conversation and
theology. Theology on Tap is a trademarked program, and dioceses in 40 states
have permission to host it, including Baltimore; Madison, Wis.; Los Angeles;
Hartford, Conn.; and Atlanta.
My hope, said Kate DeVries, associate director of the
Office of Young Adult Ministry for the Chicago archdiocese, is that no
matter where they are, young adults can connect with something that teaches
them more about our faith. We never want young adults to hear from a parish
that there is nothing available here.
In every diocese
My ultimate dream, Cusick said, is that for four
weeks in the summer, every diocese will stop and open their doors to young
adults and host Theology on Tap. What a sign to young adults that would
be.
Young adults who participated in the program expressed both hope
and ambivalence about the future of their roles as active, participating
Catholics. I am hoping to see more how we fit into the church, said
Tim Mascarenas, a 23-year-old account manager who attended Theology on Tap at
Three Holy Women Parish in Milwaukee, Wis.
Young adults are a hard group to pin down, said Dave
Macek, a 37-year-old claims examiner from Milwaukee. Most of us were born
after Vatican II, and either werent born or dont remember anything
about the way the church used to be.
Jeremy Miller, a graduate student at Northwestern, said, As
an undergrad at the University of North Carolina I used to get weirded-out by
the young adults I saw at the Newman Center. Now I guess Im one of
them.
Theology on Tap is in its 22nd year in Chicago, and people like
Cusick are starting to see its long-term impact. From our side of the
fence we hear from people who havent been to church in awhile, he
said. They are searching for a spiritual community and are beginning to
have a sense that this might have some value for them, that there might be some
payoffs.
Other results of Theology on Tap have been more personal. It
builds community, said DeVries. People come to Theology on Tap
knowing no one, and often make lifelong relationships. We have even been to
peoples weddings who met at Theology on Tap.
A hunger for community and fellowship are high on the list of
reasons why young adults attend Theology on Tap in the first place. Paul
Carrier, a 38-year-old culinary arts instructor living in Milwaukee, attended
Theology on Tap at Three Holy Women to meet new people. I went to these
all last summer and now Im back, he said.
You get free food, free beer, get to know people. Sometimes
some of us go out afterward and have a beer, said Chris Smith, a
38-year-old sales specialist. And, he added as he sat in the cool
parish basement, my apartment has no air conditioning.
Tony DelGallo, a 30-year-old who attended Theology on Tap in
Evanston, visited Sheil Catholic Center to see people in Evanston I
havent seen a lot of lately. This is also a good forum to talk about
contemporary and traditional issues with a young community of believers, issues
that are not discussed in most parishes, he said. In most church
situations you hear people say, This is the way it is. Here,
its more of an open forum.
Everyone here is my age
For those who may hesitate to come to a church in the first place,
It helps knowing everyone here is around my age, said Corrine
Scaglione, a 35-year-old kindergarten teacher from Milwaukee.
Theology on Tap topics include everything from Temptation
Island: Making Moral Decisions in the Game Called Life to Finding
Your Place in the Church Today to What Do We Believe As
Catholics? Though the recent news of clergy sex abuse scandals does not
garner its own topic, it is still on the minds of these young adults. The
reactions and opinions to the sex abuse scandals and the bishops meetings
in Dallas range as widely as do the individuals themselves.
I followed the meetings in Dallas the same way I follow
political conventions, said Jake Greenwell-Grillot, 24, of Chicago.
Nothing is going to change. The survivors groups werent welcome,
and the lay advisory boards dont look too promising. The main problem is
an abuse of power. I am having a harder time wanting to participate in church
functions.
Others are more optimistic. Change is possible, said
James Greenwell, a 22-year-old high school teacher from Chicago. The
scandals have forced us to take a closer look at what is going on. We
definitely have some work to do as a spiritual community.
This is a generation of Catholics who have their work cut out for
them. Their thoughtful, loyal presence and their participation at programs like
Theology on Tap indicate that they are not only the future of the church, but
its present reality as well. They have a lot to learn, and they have much to
say. They are hungry for fulfillment, for community, for knowledge, and this is
a program that, thus far, has fed them.
As Paul Carrier, a culinary arts instructor in Milwaukee, said,
I wish they had these going all year round.
Renée M. LaReau is a pastoral associate at the Church of
St. Charles Borromeo in Kettering, Ohio.
Related Web site
Young Adult Ministry of the Chicago
archdiocese www.yamchicago.org
National Catholic Reporter, August 30,
2002
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